The Bittersweet Goodbye to Summer
I always feel a little sad when itโs time to do fall cleanup in the garden. Thereโs something overwhelming and unmotivating about dismantling the beautiful spaces that defined my summer. The giant maple tree in my backyard is already scattering leaves everywhere, slowly covering the garden I worked so hard to shape.
This year, I had brought more than half of my houseplants outsideโhanging ferns and spider plants from the swingset, trailing pothos cascading down, Mona lavender on the landing, and pots hooked along the steps. From my piano studio window, it was a lush, green oasis. Now, as the time comes to bring them back indoors, Iโll miss that vibrant view.
Creating Something New to Enjoy
Instead of letting myself stay discouraged, I came up with a solution. I realized the swingset would be the perfect spot to hang birdfeeders and suet cakes, where I could enjoy watching the activity right from my studio window.
Iโve tried birdfeeders in other spots beforeโout front, or tucked near my pondโbut I rarely remembered to fill them, and they werenโt in a place I could easily enjoy. Now, with my teaching schedule keeping me by that window for hours a day, Iโll be much more motivated to keep the feeders filled. I even plan to order a few more to attract a greater variety of birds.
Replacing Loss with Seasonal Beauty
Iโve started to notice that the key to not feeling depressed about the seasonal changes is to replace whatโs leaving with something new.
- When my front porchโs mini โtropical jungleโ of houseplants went back inside, I replaced it with cornstalks and pumpkinsโa cheerful, autumnal welcome for visitors.
- When those fade, Iโll swap them out for Christmas greeneryโpine branches, holly berries, pinecones, and checkered ribbons.

Of course, once winter passes and the holiday decorations are gone, there comes a barer stretch before spring flowers bloom. But maybe thatโs a reminder in itselfโthat there is a time to be bare. The sparseness of February and March makes Aprilโs blossoms even more precious. And who knows? Perhaps I could try snowdrops or crocuses in my porch pots for a hint of early life.
Learning to Love the Bare Season
As the days shorten and the yard changes, Iโm thankful to find small joys in the transition. Birdwatching from my window, festive porch displays, the crunch of leaves underfoot, and even the work of gathering mulch all remind me that every season has its gifts.
We donโt need to be sad when one season ends and another begins. Itโs the cycle of life, and each season has a purpose. Thereโs always something to look forward to, something to savor, and something to be thankful for.
What do you do to brighten your home and garden as the seasons change?
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